Sexual Positions 101: Absolute 1st Timer Guide

If you are a novice when it comes to sex, the act can seem really intimidating and overwhelming. When you enter into a sexual relationship, it takes time for you to learn what you like, what your partner likes, and what balance strikes the best chord with you both. Getting tense and worrying about the situation only makes it worse, so my first piece of advice is to take a deep breath and allow yourself to relax. Allow things to move at a natural pace and do not try to rush. Start off with simple positions that are not too challenging so that you can focus on the feelings they arouse. This will allow you to feel connected and safe with your partner. Here are a few simple sex positions that every beginner should try.
You may not have tried tantric sex, but perhaps it’s time you did. The idea of Tantric sex goes back generations and the Kama Sutra explained all about it. This was a book written by a priest and the intention of the book was to allow couples to find perfect harmony in their marriages, so that the love lasted longer and the couple found close bonding within their relationship. The same applies today and you can experiment with different lovemaking techniques that enhance your love life. She will love you for it because all of these practices are caring and that’s the nature of a woman.
When you decide to try Tantric sex, you will need to have warmed coconut oil for massage that leads to lovemaking. You will also need to prepare the bedroom so that it is a temple of pleasure. Make sure that you protect your sheets with large towels and that you have both discoursed tantric sex in advance. Choose an evening when you have lots of time on your hands and you know you won’t be interrupted.
Massage plays a large role in the kind of sexual activity you share with your partner. It’s all about satisfying your partner, rather than yourself. Massaging her clitoris isn’t all there is to it. Massage inside her and find her G spot. Massage the area of the anus as well if you have both consented to it. You will find that this area actually links with her G spot internally and that you are likely to get a very marked response to this massage. Similarly, she can massage you and the most sensitive area she can massage is the area between the testicles and the back passage because it is here that all of your sexual senses are awakened.

Positions suitable to tantric sex

Closeness and intimacy is everything when you are making love in the tantric way. You may decide that you want to pleasure her in a gentle way and letting her sit on your lap and then sitting up to join her is a good way to start making love. Your bodies will slide together and she will be able to hold onto you or lean back so that you can play with her clitoris as well as entering her vagina. Again, slow rocking will help you to excite each other and you need to learn to hold off on climaxing. When you feel she is near climax, stop. Then start all over again. The idea of tantric sex is to make the climax something explosive and the more you hold off on climaxing the huger the climax will become. Make sure that you are both on the same page. You can read the Kama Sutra together and try many of the intimate positions suggested, making sure that the climax isn’t the whole focus of lovemaking. The focus is on improving the pleasure for your partner and extending that pleasure.
The Bow – This position is a very powerful position and allows full penetration. It also allows a man maximum thrust while a woman’s hands can be used to massage the testicles. The woman lies on her back and places her feet onto the chest of her man who is kneeling between her legs. Her behind is raised and you may find it more comfortable if you use a cushion so that the level is perfect for entry into her. Before entering her, make sure that she is massaged and that the oils allow easy penetration. Get her to push against your chest with her feet because this gives you more thrust and more control over the lovemaking process. While you are making love in this way, she can massage you and this helps to make your orgasm even stronger.
Crossed leg lovemaking – This may sound like a contradiction in terms, but it is the position that derives this title because of the stance taken. A man lays his woman onto a table edge. Her legs are lifted to his shoulders but before placing them onto his shoulders, he crosses her legs. You may wonder why the crossing of the legs is so essential but this is because of the woman’s anatomy. It gives her greater control over the muscles within the vagina and she is able to move her body in rhythm with his so that she gains maximum thrust and he gains maximum friction. It’s a wonderful way to make love and something that will make both the man and the woman very happy indeed.
If you introduce tantric sexual practices into your lovemaking, you will find that you will be less shy of each other and will be able to share a lot more of your desires with your partner as well as being open to listen to hers. She may have a wealth of ideas that will spice up your love life, but she needs to have total trust in your reactions. Be open and talk to her. Let her know that the rules of the bedroom are that she can feel free to talk about her own sexual desires as well as fulfilling yours. Many women are a little shy about talking about sex, so will need that level of reassurance that helps them to open up and be honest. It isn’t lack of honesty. It’s being afraid of your reactions that make a woman hold back from being adventurous. Show her that you want her to be happy in bed and listen to what she says. She may have ideas that will fill your lovemaking with a new sense of happiness and contentment.
If you are a novice when it comes to sex, the act can seem really intimidating and overwhelming. When you enter into a sexual relationship, it takes time for you to learn what you like, what your partner likes, and what balance strikes the best chord with you both. Getting tense and worrying about the situation only makes it worse, so my first piece of advice is to take a deep breath and allow yourself to relax. Allow things to move at a natural pace and do not try to rush.

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